I recently wrote a blog post highlighting just how different the start of a nursing shift can be. In that article, I pointed out how mindset can impact the flow of your work day.
Focus on the negatives and you get more of them. Or pay attention to the positives and you will enjoy a smooth, more fulfilling day.
While I pointed out just how different a day can be -for the exact same person, at the exact same time- I am not sure I clearly articulated what it is that you can do to make your day a good one.
Start Your Day Off Right
If you read that article and still left thinking, “What does she actually DO to make this happen?” this post is for you. I do believe that we are in charge of our days. And I can speak from experience.
In the past, I was a negative nurse. I focused on everything that was wrong. In my mind, the unit was to blame. The management was at fault. I could see what we did not have, what we were not going to get, and all of the ways that the system had failed us. Even if someone was to attempt to point out to me the fact that there WAS something good about the day… I could not see it.
How did I change? What was it that helped me make the shift from focusing on the negative to seeing the positive?
This next part of this post is exactly what I do on a routine basis to keep myself focused on opportunity. I have read, studied, listened to, and coached with a LOT of self-help experts. I am now sharing here my inside scoop as to what I did to change my focus from negative to positive.
Here Are 5 Things You Can Do as a Nurse to Start Your Day Off Right:
- Get a good night (or day) sleep. So whenever your sleep is, make sure you get it. If you work night shift, you need to be even more proactive about this step. The point here is- and I learned this from one of my personal trainers at the gym- our body needs to shut down. Power down, like our computers and mobile devices. While it is resting in the downtime, there are certain things that get recharged. We need to keep our bodies (and here, I am talking mind, body, and spirit) on a schedule. A routine schedule. So, I know that my body needs eight hours of sleep. I strive to go to bed at 10 pm and wake up at 6 pm as often as possible. This helps me get a full night of restful sleep. You have to figure out what works best for you- and stick with it. But regular, quality, full night (day) sleep is key here.
- Eat food that fuels you. I went through the Institute of Integrative Nutrition coaching program, when I thought I wanted to be a health coach. While that did not work out exactly as I had planned, I did take one lesson (well, many) from that course and continue on with it. I learned in that program that most Americans start their day with sugary foods. This has us crashing mid-morning and reaching for more sugary or caffeine filled foods/drinks to keep us going. Instead of eating sugary cereal with cow milk and orange juice (my old breakfast of twenty-nine years), after going through that program I start my day with a green smoothie, hard-boiled egg, and garden salad. It energizes me and I never have that mid-morning crash.
- Journal first thing. During another self-empowerment course, I had to read the book ‘The Artist’s Way’ by Julia Cameron. In that book, she talks about an exercise called ‘morning pages’. In this exercise you write out three long handed pages of whatever comes to mind. Even if the pages read something like: “This is stupid. I have nothing to write about. I am tired. Why is that bird chirping so loudly? My face is itchy. I need to buy eggs later. That dream about the dragon last night was so weird.” You literally are writing out whatever comes to mind. This helps you clear your head for the next step in my morning routine process, which is…
- Sit in quiet. This may be hard for some people to do. Heck, it is even hard for me to do and I have been doing it for over four years now. The challenge is people think that when they sit down to meditate or breathe mindfully that they will no longer have any thoughts. Let me tell you- the only time you will not have a thought is when you are dead. You even have thoughts at time when you sleep… they are called dreams. So, the practice is just about sitting in the quiet and noticing these thoughts. Then choosing to let them go and refocus on some attention point. Whether it be the breath, a sound, a mantra. Just something to say, “OK, mind. I see that thought. Thank you for bringing that to my attention. Let that go and refocus on the breath.” That’s all there is to it. Sit quietly and breathe.
- State your intentions. I think that this step has come to be my favorite one. I do an exercise during my signature talk, Nursing from Within™, which teaches people how to get clear on what they really want. Then from that list of want statements I offer a tip on how to create intentional affirmations. What they do with these intention statements is the most important part. If you create a list of intentional statements and then put them into a drawer, never to be seen again, then you have nothing. If you do what I do, which is stand in front of a mirror looking myself in the eyes, saying them aloud- this is where the magic happens. Over time my unconscious mind starts to get on board with my conscious mind and change occurs. This very practice is what I feel has helped me focus less on what I do not want (the negative) and more on what I do want (the positive).
Let’s hear from you all. What do you do to start your day off right? How do you ensure that, no matter what, you are going to have a positive day? Share in the comments below to teach other reader’s a positivity tip. Thanks for reading!
About the Author: Keynote speaker and virtual conference host, Elizabeth Scala MSN/MBA, RN, partners with hospitals, nursing schools, and nurse associations to transform the field of nursing from the inside out. As the bestselling author of ‘Nursing from Within’, Elizabeth guides nurses and nursing students to a change in perspective, helping them make the inner shift needed to better maneuver the sometimes challenging realities of being a caregiver. Elizabeth received her dual master’s degree from Johns Hopkins University. She is also a certified coach and Reiki Master Teacher. Elizabeth lives in Maryland with her supportive husband and playful pit bull.