Did you know that one of the key words that brings people to my blog is “quit nursing”? I was actually shocked when I found this out. After the initial surprise wore off, I found myself feeling something else.
For me, it is very disappointing to know that there are many nurses out there who want to quit nursing. And, I understand.
Nursing is A Difficult Profession
The hours are long. Often so long, that we do not get paid to stay late and finish up our charting.
The patients can tear us down. Literally. Ask any nurse if she or he has even been swung, spit, kicked, or cursed at. Sadly, I imagine that they have.
The work is physical. And mental. Emotional. Spiritual. Energetically taxing. We give so much of ourselves to our job that when we get home, there is often not much left. Just the other day, I talked with a nurse who said that her feet are in so much pain that when she is home she has to ask her children to get her a glass of water because she just cannot get back up.
You Want Out
OK, so you want out of the nursing profession? Well, before you go… I hope you will reconsider. And, I have a few questions to ask you that may help you think further about your decision.
Really. Have you thought about it lately? So many people decide that the job is not for them and that they want out before reminding themselves WHY they got into the nursing field in the first place.
I actually was reading an article a month or so ago that was simply mortifying to me. The nurse was writing about how bad it was for her and at the end of her post she said something like, “I hear Walmart is hiring.”
You would rather go work at a large box store than give care as a nurse? Now, I am not knocking the store Walmart. I am just painting a picture here for you.
Can you teach a person something new working at this other job? Will you be able to use your skills and training that you have developed as a nurse? What if you get bored and find the tasks meaningless? Which leads me to the next question you should consider…
2) What will you do if you do not do nursing?
It is a legitimate question. Have you really thought this through?
Now, if you want to quit nursing and I cannot change your mind, then that is well and good. But before you jump ship, this new job of yours… what is it going to be?
How is the pay? What about the benefits? Do you get days off in the middle of the week? Will you work with a team? Is the environment fast-paced? Where will you find an interview? What will you apply to do?
Really, before you decide to quit nursing, I would encourage you to have another plan ready. Do not just leave without having anything else in mind.
3) What is it that you LOVE about being a nurse?
No, no. I am not trying to convince you to stay. Trust me, I would never do something like that. If you are that unhappy in nursing, then you are doing a disservice to the profession and the patients you care for.
However, I do encourage you to think about what it is you DO enjoy about nursing. Why? Because maybe you will look for another job (even in nursing?) that allows you to do the things that you like to do.
I would suggest listing out all of the things you DO like about being a nurse. Make that list first, before you turn in your resignation notice.
4) Can you find another nursing job?
I have always said that this business I have here is not about taking nurses away from the bedside. Oh no. Even if I teach nurses business skills, it is to — USE in nursing.
We NEED nurses in the profession of nursing. Good nurses who love nursing. So, instead of leaving altogether can you simply find another nursing job?
Rather than quitting nursing, can you find something new to do? If so, what would that be? What kinds of things have you always dreamed of doing? Instead of running away from something… run towards it!
5) How will you feel when you’ve left?
Wow, this one just gave me chills. It is a really interesting question. And maybe something that you cannot even think or feel into.
But let’s just say you quit nursing. Now you are working at your local florist. How does that feel? Do you feel proud of yourself? Do you miss talking with patients? Are you excited to go into work each day?
If possible, I would suggest you see if you can figure out how it will feel to no longer be a nurse. I hear from SO many nurses that I interview on my podcast who tell me that nursing was their calling. That they knew they wanted to be a nurse their entire life. How do you think it would feel if you could no longer be a nurse?
6) Why do you want to leave?
If you want to quit nursing, why? Is there a particular person that you cannot stand working with at your job? Is it the policies of your organization?
Maybe it is something that you can change simply by finding another career as a nurse. Then you do not have to quit nursing altogether. You can simply make some changes to get out of your current job and into a new one that is more suited for you!
Let’s hear from you! Have you ever wanted to quit nursing? If so, what did you do about it? What can you share with our readers to help them stay in the profession of nursing today? Thanks for reading and I look forward to hearing your thoughts below!
About the Author: Keynote speaker and virtual conference host, Elizabeth Scala MSN/MBA, RN, partners with hospitals, nursing schools, and nurse associations to transform the field of nursing from the inside out. As the host of the Nurse’s Week program, The Art of Nursing, Elizabeth supports nursing organizations in celebrating and recognizing their staff in a meaningful way. Elizabeth received her dual master’s degree from Johns Hopkins University. She is also a certified coach and Reiki Master Teacher. Elizabeth lives in Maryland with her supportive husband and playful pit bull.