I’ve just come in from shoveling snow. Oh, think spring is my new favorite mantra. We have the steepest driveway in the neighborhood, which might be why the house was on the market for over 18 months.
As I was out there fighting with the compacted icy mush, I thought to myself “This sucks.”
Immediately after that thought came out another one followed it.
“I’m making progress.”
Looking up and down the driveway, realizing I was close to finished I shifted my perspective. In that very moment. In a pure instant I went from feeling irritated, tired and angry to accomplished, proud and relieved.
How easy it is to shift our outlook! In a second’s time my frown literally turned itself upside-down.
What about your nursing views?
When have you looked at something in the workplace and thought to yourself, “This really stinks!” As soon as you have that thought you’ve created an environment which breeds negative emotions. Feeling badly then creates actions (or inaction) that are usually not very productive.
We get lazy. We speak badly. We complain, gossip or vent. We act out. We procrastinate.
Each time we have a negative thought it creates a negative feeling which usually leads to negative action or non-action.
Can you shift in the exact moment you have a negative thought?
Of course you can! Look how easy it was for me to go from “Shoveling sucks” to “I’m feeling really good about myself and my work.”
Each time you notice yourself feeling badly take that emotion as a gift. A clue. A reminder. A reason to pause and witness, “What kinds of thoughts am I have right here and now?”
How can you shift from “This sucks” to “This rocks”?
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Beautifully illustrated.I also see when we fume and fret with” what is” ,we feel bad and lose energy. Accept “what is” and then move on
SK Puri,
As always, a wonderful addition. Thank you for your insights. Accepting a situation as it is and flowing through it allows the energy to continously move. Enjoy your health today,
Elizabeth
Great reminder Elizabeth! It’s so easy to let our circumstances or someone else’s behavior affect our mood. But to do so makes us victims. Of course, there are numerous reasons why we would act in this way. We do it out of habit… we do it to get attention from others… to feel important… to feel heard… to feel loved. All old dis-empowering ways to be. We are so much more than our circumstances. Choosing to rise about our old habits and to feel what we want is a true act of self-love.
Thanks for your insightful comments, Nat. As always it is a pleasure to hear from you, and receive your wisdom on the blog post. Enjoy the day, Elizabeth